Who am I?

Who am I?

Kappadokya, Türkiye -- August 2023

I'm just like you.

I'm a normal person with:

  • struggles
  • insecurities
  • family drama
  • career problems

But I continue to get through life --> and do it calmly, with serenity and joy.

And I want the same for you.

I was overweight, depressed, self-conscious and ashamed of my mistakes in life.

And I thought that was it for me.

I thought I'd forever be:

  • crying in change-rooms
  • ashamed of who I am
  • self-conscious

But in a last-ditch effort, I went all in.

With books, therapy, YouTube (seriously!) and a lot of mistakes, I changed my life.

I became someone who is healthy, calm, happy and has a lust for life.

I proved to myself and the world that it's possible to climb out of a hole.

I believe that everyone can build a beautiful life for themselves and their family.

And I want my trials and tribulations to contribute to your life.

Why should you make the same mistakes I've made, and face the same challenges I've faced?

Why not skip all that?

And that's what I'm passionate about.

I want to help people, just like me, to live the lives they're capable of.

As for my background, I'm an Australian with Turkish parents.

My parents are divorced, but very loving.

I have two little sisters, Ela and Lara, who I love more than life itself (a lot of my writing comes from my advice to them).

I have a beautiful girlfriend, Georgia, who's my biggest fan.

I spend my mornings creating self-improvement (this!), my days as a Power Generation Project Engineer, and my nights playing basketball and cooking meals to keep me alive!

The best places to contact me are is: